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Writer's pictureAmanda Surratt

5 Stages of Emotional Healing

Updated: Sep 19



Years ago, I found myself sitting on the kitchen floor, overwhelmed by emotions I couldn’t even name. It was like everything hit me at once—stress, hurt, frustration. I had been pushing through life, ignoring the signals my heart was sending. That moment became a turning point. I knew something needed to shift, and I had to face the emotions I’d been burying for years. It wasn’t easy, but I began to understand that healing wasn’t just a quick fix—it’s a journey. That’s when I learned about the 5 stages of emotional healing, and they transformed the way I approached my own healing and helped me find peace again.

In the tender embrace of life's intricate dance, the journey of emotional healing unfolds like the petals of a delicate flower. As we navigate the winding paths of our emotions, understanding the five stages becomes a compass guiding us towards a place of power, compassion, and love. So, let's embark on this nurturing journey together.





Stage 1: Suffering - A Gentle Acknowledgment:

The first step in the dance of emotional healing is acknowledging the presence of suffering. Often, we find ourselves entangled in the web of denial, reluctant to face the painful emotions and traumas that linger in the shadows. In this stage, dear hearts, it's essential to offer yourself a gentle acknowledgment. Allow the pain to be seen, felt, and heard, knowing that your suffering is the tender seed from which healing will blossom.

Stage 2: Awareness - Illuminating the Heart:

As we tenderly tread through the garden of emotional healing, Stage 2 invites us to turn towards the light of awareness. It's a moment of naming the emotions that reside within, understanding the intricate dance of how and why we feel a certain way. Like a gardener caring for delicate blooms, embrace self-reflection, journaling, or open-hearted conversations as tools to illuminate the garden of your heart.

Stage 3: Confrontation - A Brave Encounter:

Confrontation may sound daunting, but in the realm of emotional healing, it's a brave encounter with the emotions we've held at bay. Dear souls, let courage be your guiding star as you face the storm of emotions. Confronting the pain is not about reliving it but acknowledging its existence. Unravel the layers with compassion, allowing the gentle breeze of self-understanding to caress your heart.

Stage 4: Expression - The Sacred Release:

In the sanctuary of emotional healing, Stage 4 is the sacred space for expression. Feel the freedom to express the emotions that have long been confined within. Whether it's tears that cascade like a gentle rain, screams echoing through the corridors of your soul, or the rhythmic pace of feet on the earth, let your expression be a dance with vulnerability. It's through expression that the healing waters flow, nurturing the roots of your being.

Stage 5: Acceptance - The Blooming Flower:

Ah, sweet acceptance, the final stage where the petals of emotional healing unfurl into a blooming flower. In this stage, you are not just healed but transformed. Embrace the power of acceptance, dear ones. It's not about erasing the past but reframing your thinking and shifting your perspective. From this place of acceptance, you radiate strength, compassion, and love—a testament to the resilience that resides within your beautiful soul.


Finally, as you journey through the 5 stages of emotional healing, may your heart be your guide, and may the nurturing embrace of self-compassion be your constant companion. Allow God's sweet spirit to wrap you in a warm hug. In the gentle unfolding of each stage, may you find the blossoming beauty of your own resilience, ready to face the world with a heart that beats in harmony with the symphony of life. Blessings on your journey, dear souls.


Additionally, I have a gift for you – 42 affirmation cards designed to be a pillar of support on your journey. These cards are crafted to help you rewire your brain, balance your nervous system, and create a profound sense of calmness. They are yours to download for free, a gentle companion as you navigate the beautiful terrain of your emotions.







Join my Facebook group High Vibes and Motivation by Hope Dealer Girlie by clicking HERE, and download your free affirmation cards HERE. Let's create a space where hearts can connect, and souls can find solace together.


Blessings on your journey, dear souls.


Much Love,

Amanda Surratt, BS, CECP, CBCP, CHLC, CHHC

Holistic Health Practitioner




My goal is to always help you live in Divine health with a prosperous soul.





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